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快乐是平淡生活中偶尔拾起的惊喜,只要你想它就会在!

 
 
 

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快乐在于你的选择  

2007-08-23 14:27:59|  分类: 默认分类 |  标签: |举报 |字号 订阅

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快乐与痛苦原来是一对孪生兄弟,不同的只是在于你的选择。就好像夏天和冬天一样,如果你选择夏天,认为夏天会带给你快乐,然而冬天定会来临,它并不会给你带来不幸和痛苦,只是因为你选择了夏天而拒绝冬天。所以才会有不幸和痛苦的产生其实不管是冬天还是夏天对你来讲都没有关系不同的只是你的感受,唯有当人乐执著于其中之一时,你才能够享受两者,快乐永存。

世间许多事情本身并无所谓好坏,全在于当事人怎么看,当我们面对一件事情时,学会如何保持乐观害达的心境而避免自寻烦恼就显得十会重要。生活是一种伟大的艺术,只要你学会生活,学会选择,别让世俗的尘埃蒙蔽你的双眼,别让太多的功利给你的心灵套上沉重的枷锁,你就会发现快乐星星点点般密布在我你身边的每一个角落,几乎随手可得。

然而,在我们的生活中,为人处事干事业就像烹调一盘菜,原料很重要,调料很重要,燃料也很重要,但厨师的手艺更重要。原料是人的才华品德,调料是人的交际能力,燃料是人的家庭背景与经济实力,原料好,烹调巧,火候到位就能炒出一盘色、香、味、形具全的好菜。如果原料变质了,厨师烹调的手艺再高,火候掌握得再巧妙,这盘菜也没有人愿动筷子。有的人出身背景很好,也有经济实力,只是做人方面稍欠经验,终究一事无成。这就像一条鲜鱼放多了盐又烧糊了一样,真是糟蹋了一盘好菜,有的人出身低贱,一无所有只因做人做到位,终于成就了非凡的事业。这就像山中的无名野菜,经高厨的巧手烹调也能成为一道名菜。当你理解到世上没有两片完全相同的树叶,你就会明白人生亦是如此。你就能容忍人与人间性格的差异。我你又何必苦苦追求别人与我们一样呢?而对于你们自己,则更应当用放在镜看优点,用望远镜看缺点。对于别人来说,别人也许真的错了,但他们并不这么认为,或者,他虽然明知错了,也希望得到足够的尊重,所以别去指责他们,尝试着去理解他们,以一颗宽容的心去对待你身边的每一个人。因为世界上没有永远的敌人,尝试着与各种类型的人打交道。那就是要广交朋友,那么如何编织自己的关系网?

一、不在拒绝真朋友:

二、不断结交真朋友:

三、接纳与你持不同观点的优秀朋友

四、与有进取心的人交朋友。

俗话说得好,一个人在社会上打拼,仅凭一已之力 是很难有很大成就的,因为一个有的力量毕竟太有限了,就算你浑身是铁也打不出几个铁钉来,这一点微薄之力甚至连自己都保护不了,又何谈与别人竟争呢?而真正的友谊则能产生巨大而神奇的力量。人常说共同分享痛苦,痛苦就会减少一半,共同分享快乐,快乐就会变成双份。所以,朋友请努力把握好你眼前的这一切!

是啊,虽然命运和我开了太多的玩笑,但玩笑之后我懂得了珍惜青春与生命学会笑对人生中的不幸和苦难。许多人说我是个强者,强者我不敢当,但我还算是个足够坚强的人无论多少压力冲向自己我都时时告诫自己不能停止飞翔,在飞行过程中我要渐渐学会用喙自己梳羽毛,用舌自己舔伤口。在泪水中我学会了欢笑;在悲惨的日子里我学会了真正做人;当没有什么可以感动我的时候,我学会了去感受;当并不富足时我学会了给予;从最低层,我学会了什么叫高尚;当被憎恨时我学会了怎样去爱;糟糕透顶时,我学到了最好的一课;当我迷失的时候我才了解我是谁。是啊我该怎样选择自己的人生呢?不同的时候往往会做出不同的答案。

当我受到挫折的时候,我苦闷眼前的世界仿佛也完全陷入了悲哀,这时候的我告诉自己人生是一条艰难的路,只有悲苦和离别……

当我获得成功的时候,我高兴、我欣喜我的眼前是一个生勃勃的世界这时候的我告诉自己人生充满了乐趣应该去探索去拼搏。

当自私与贪欲的魔鬼揪住我心灵的时候我偷闲、我懒隋、我斤斤计较在我的眼里,一切都是为了自己的生活舒坦,这时候的我告诉自己人生就是乐,就是损人利已。啊人生究竟是什么?我观察、我思考……

人生是一幅五彩的画,人生是一支唱不完的歌,人生是一条坎坷的路……

人生之路是坎坷的,充满荆棘的只要你勇敢地踏过荆棘,你一定是成功者。人生就是不断的拼搏,用知识去武装自己,奉献于别人。

是一棵小草,就要为大地增添绿意;

是一枝花,就要为祖国增添光彩;

是一侏参天大树,就要为人们带来一片绿阴;

是一个人,就要为自己的父母献出一份孝心,就要为自己的兄弟姐妹营造温暖,这才是永恒的人生!

  Pleasure and pain had a pair of twins, only difference is your choice. Like summer and winter, like, if you choose summer, that summer will bring you happiness, but winter will come, it does not bring you misfortune and suffering, just because you have chosen to refuse the summer of winter. So can there be unfortunate and painful fact, whether produced in winter or summer, you have nothing to do with different terms but you feel happy only when people persist in one of them, you both can enjoy, happy forever.
World many things in itself good or bad, is all about how the parties see a thing when we are faced with when the harm to learn how to maintain a positive state of mind up to avoid asking for trouble will be important to look 10. Life is a great art, as long as you learn to live and how to choose, do not let worldly dust blinded your eyes, do not let too many of the utility to put on your heart heavy chains, like bits and pieces you will find happiness clouds in my every corner of your side, almost readily available.
However, in our lives, dealing with others to pursue their careers just like cooking a dish, a very important raw materials, spices are important, fuel is also very important, but the chef's skill is more important. Qualities of raw materials is the talent, seasoning is the human communication skills, fuel is one of the family background and economic strength, good raw materials, cooking skill and level of attainment in place will Stir a color, smell, taste, shape with all the dishes . If the material deterioration, and chefs cooking skills and then high heat of re-grasp subtle, this dish and no one is willing to Dongkuaizi. Some personal background well, there are economic strength, but a man less impressive aspects of the experience, ultimately accomplished nothing.
It's like a fish up more salt as it burnt, ruined a really good food, some people born inferior, nothing to do because life position, and finally a remarkable career achievements. It's like the nameless mountain vegetables, cooked by high-skilled cook can become a famous dish. When you understand There is no two identical leaves, you will understand also the case in life. You will be able to tolerate differences in personality between people. I need for you to hard in pursuit of others as we do? For your own, even more should be used on the mirror to see the advantages, disadvantages with the telescope. For others, the others may be really wrong, but they
Did not think so, or, though he knew was wrong, but also want enough respect, so blame them not to go, try to understand them, to a forgiving heart to treat every person around you. Because the world does not have permanent enemies, try to deal with all types of people. That is to make friends, how weave his web of relationships?
First, do not reject true friend:
Second, continue to make real friends:
Third, to accept different views of your best friends
4, and enterprising people to make friends.
As the saying goes, a person in the community hard, alone has the power of a great success is difficult, because, after all, an available power too limited, or if you will not be able overcome with a few iron nails years, this modest and even not protect themselves, how can we talk about it with others, Jing Zheng? But true friendship is to have huge and magical power. People often say to share the pain, the pain will reduce by half, to share the joy, happiness will become a double. So, a friend invited you to grasp the front of it all!
Yes ah, although the fate and I started a lot of jokes, a joke, but then I learned treasure my life and learn to laugh about life and the misfortune and suffering. Many people said that I was strong, I am not as strong, but I'm one who is strong enough to pressure rushed no matter how many I have always told himself he could not stop the fly, during the flight I want to gradually learn to use their own comb Hui feathers, with the tongue licking their wounds. I learned in tears of laughter; in the tragic days I learned a real life; when nothing can touch me, I learned to feel; if not rich when I learned to give; from the bottom,
I learned what is noble; When hate when I learned how to love; really bad, I learned the best lesson; when I lost when I came to understand who I am. Yes ah I how to choose your own life? Different times tend to make different answers.
When I was a setback, I am bored in front of the world seems to have completely fallen into a sad, I told myself this time is a difficult road in life, only sorrow and parting ... ...
When I succeed, I glad, I am pleased my eyes is a world of health and vitality, I told myself this time of life should be fun to explore to fight.
When the selfishness and greed of the Devil to pull my mind when I loaf, I lazy Sui, I care too much about in my eyes, everything is comfortable for their own lives, this time I told myself that life is music, is the loss of human interest already. Ah what is life? I observe, I think ... ...
Life is a colorful picture, life is a Chang Buwan song, life is a bumpy road ... ...
The road of life is rocky, full of thorns as long as you bravely stepped on thorns, you must be successful. Life is constant struggle, to arm themselves with knowledge, dedication to others.
Is a blade of grass, would add green for the earth;
Is a flower, would add luster to the motherland;
Is a Jurassic giant trees, it is necessary for people to bring a Lvyin;
Is a person, it is necessary for their parents gave a filial piety, it is necessary for their brothers and sisters to create a warm, this is eternal life!

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